Often what we believe are shades of things until we attempt to define them for ourselves.  We get grouped into labels whether we like it or not, and cannot be seen otherwise without conscious effort, without thinking and sharing.  There isn’t always a right answer, a right way.  This site is my way of doing just that: defining my experiences.  Maybe some of you that come across it will be inspired to do so for yourselves.  I think that’s a worthy goal.